Most of the time its too easy to fall to sin, temptation or evil. So easy to give in. Especially when you are desperate. It seems so natural to be weak in that certain moment. It may be because of the people you are surrounded with that can influence you, the circumstance you are in or even just your state of mind. But when you look closer you may see the truth. The truth can hurt more than a slap in the face. However, your decision should be based on facts rather than mere assumptions. Meaning we should confront the issue.
When you run away from it you have that certain degree of fear that keeps you from knowing what you should in the first place. They say better think twice before doing or saying something. Well, that is true, better yet think more than twice. Think it over and over and over again. Until you are very sure of it. Weigh the pros and cons to what your actions may lead to.
You can never be ready for anything but at least you have an idea of what you are getting into. You may be confused with all the thoughts in your head but its part of the process. Don't worry too much. It may stress you out. Just be calm, breathe in breathe out,and take one day at a time. Don't make decisions out of burst emotions.
You may regret it. It may bother you but you have to stay focused. And everything will fall into its rightful places in due time.
Written: September 10, 2009